Graysexuality, or gray-asexuality, covers rare, weak, or highly conditional sexual attraction. It is the foggy band between asexual and allosexual. A graysexual person might feel attraction twice a year, or only in a narrow context, or only as a faint signal that is easy to ignore.

The word exists because binary questions on dating apps leave these people arguing with a form. They are not confused by default. They are poorly served by checkboxes.

Partners who need frequent sexual affirmation can feel starved. That is incompatibility, not a puzzle to solve with more candles. Partners who like a low-key erotic life may find the match easy. Either way, the graysexual person does not owe a performance schedule to keep the label respectable.

Some people use the term for a season and later move to another word. That revision is allowed.