Wearable vibrators are slim enough to stay in place while you walk, sit, or have sex. Panty clips, C-shapes, magnetic gusset docks, and soft inner-and-outer U shapes all compete. The design problem is always the same: stay on target when the body folds.

Underwear is part of the product. Test at home with the pair you will actually wear. A motor that feels centered while you stand in a bathroom can rotate when you sit at a desk. Quiet motors cost more and are the difference between a private joke and a public one.

Remotes and apps raise consent questions in shared spaces. Set the rules before anyone leaves the house. Charge the toy fully; wearables that die at dinner cannot be rescued without a bathroom trip and an awkward laugh.

Daily wear

• Start with a short errand, not a full workday.
• A liner protects underwear from lube.
• Dry magnet docks after washing.
• If the toy has a light, cover it or choose a darker fabric.