Rabbit vibrators pair an insertable shaft with a clitoral arm. The arm is the rabbit: two little ears that sit on either side of the clitoris or a single pad that presses it. Dual motors are the point. Shaft and ears should be controllable separately if the maker is paying attention.

The original 1990s rabbits were jelly and rotated beads in the shaft. Some people still want that swirl. Many current rabbits drop rotation for a flexible silicone ear that actually stays on target. Flexibility is the upgrade that matters.

Insert the shaft, then aim the ears. If the ears poke the wrong place, twist the whole toy slightly rather than bending the arm like a wishbone. When the ears finally sit, stay in a smaller range of motion so they do not hop off.

Fit issues

• Ear length varies; a short arm suits a closer clitoris.
• A slimmer shaft leaves room for the arm without crowding.
• Avoid glued-on ears that can tear at the join.
• Clean the fork where shaft meets arm.